Tuesday 30 July 2013

Busy Bees



End of July already can you believe it!  One of the things that this blog is showing me is how time flies. Every time I write a new post I double-check the date of the last one because I cannot believe where the time has gone.

List of things that have happened since my last post - I started Pilates, went to my first Mothers & Teachers Dinner, took the boys to their first beach music festival, attended a wedding with the boys, bought a horse, bought a motorbike, read a parenting book, watched a parenting DVD series, almost finished converting the garage into a play/wreck room for the boys, kept up with shop admin and wages, did our home and personal filing for the year (Had done no filing this year at all) and a few other bits and pieces in between. Oh Yes - There were 3 weeks of school holidays and a busy 3 weeks those were! 

These days I am trying to fit less into my days. I am trying to simplify and live in the moment.  I am so tired of rushing everywhere.  Less is SOOOO more – I totally get it! 

I have instituted a couple new things in my life like Sunday Solitude Day. We had a lovely family breakfast together and then Rog took the boys and went up to the farm… and …. I had the house to myself for the WHOLE day!  It was such BLISS and I love my Rog and I love my boys but what I treat! I did so many things I had wanted to do for ages. For a compulsive list ticker off person this is like therapy.  I need one of these a month so SSD is here to stay.

I have also started to turn my phone off for short periods of the day so that I can isolate myself from the world around me and be present – it is awesome and quiet addictive, I am building up to Technology Free Fridays where computer and phone goes off for the whole day – THE WHOLE DAY.  Rog recently left his phone at home on a family weekend away and it was amazing – I loved it!

So SSD and TFF here we come – yeeeha!

The biggest things to happen this month are by far my new Horse – Maverick and Tom’s new motorbike – YAM A HA.  I have wanted Maverick for 30 years and Tom had wanted YAM A HA for “His whole life” he tells us. He is 4.  He definitely has his Dad to thank for this one.  Rog took such joy in scouring the countryside for a good little bike for his big boy and Tom is completely and utterly obsessed with it.  My quiet disapproval melted away when I saw his little face – well done Rog!

Max has one foot in both camps for now, he rides his “Motorbike” in his horse-riding helmet and yells “Giddyup” and “hhhhhimmmmhhhimmmm” in the same sentence?  Lucky Maverick is very forgiving else we might have a problem on our hands.

Happy Days!
Love you Rog